I’ve had three good LTRs off Tinder. Didn’t use it for hook ups. Not sure my experience of offline versus online was that radically different, TBH. After relat

I’ve had three good LTRs off Tinder. Didn’t use it for hook ups. Not sure my experience of offline versus online was that radically different, TBH. After relationships would end, I tended to take time off. Then I would get to thinking it’d be nice to start dating again. A mix of online and offline, but online always let me meet people I never would’ve encountered organically. Current partner of 4 years lived an hour away. We never would’ve met. We had a “love at first sight” connection right off the bat. Dating is hard if you take it seriously. Dating is also hard if you can only succeed online or offline but try both. I think the sweet spot is an attitude and approach that works across both modalities. Everything else is just weighing too heavily in one direction or the other.