> I don't believe dating should be gamed I agree, which is why I dislike dating apps. It seems like the dominant practice is for men to "right swipe" or messag

> I don't believe dating should be gamed I agree, which is why I dislike dating apps. It seems like the dominant practice is for men to "right swipe" or message every woman (regardless of whether they are actually attracted to them or not) then decide whether they're actually interested once they get a match/response. This results in women getting lots of generic messages from guys who are not actually interested in them. It's really a crappy experience for both genders. However, it seems to be the local optima that modern dating apps converge on.