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“Excuse me, that spicy pasta sauce (in their basket), have you tried it before, what do you think?” If no reply, move on. If they answer sheepishly, don’t be
by bfung 7y ago
“Excuse me, that spicy pasta sauce (in their basket), have you tried it before, what do you think?”
If no reply, move on. If they answer sheepishly, don’t be annoying. If they react with enthusiasm...
“I love spicy”. Escalate.
@wendyshu - I feel ya trying to explain nuanced things to a crowd who take things very, literally, but good job.
Sorry, bored on a flight.
- MaximumYComb 7y agoFrom your perspective, you're only asking her once so it's no big deal. From her perspective, she's had 10 guys try it today and it happens often when she's shopping.
- wendyshu 7y agoYou're underestimating the ability of women to artfully handle the interaction. You're overestimating the amount of attention they get. You're trying to avoid taking any personal risk. Here, try this: Say something funny. No one's bothered if they laugh.
- yhoneycomb 7y agoExactly. It's just weak men find any excuse to avoid actually putting themselves out there, and would rather post online about how women are all terrible.