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This is the abstract: > We present data from a nationally representative 2017 survey of American adults. For heterosexual couples in the United States, meeting
by TallGuyShort 7y ago
This is the abstract:
> We present data from a nationally representative 2017 survey of American adults. For heterosexual couples in the United States, meeting online has become the most popular way couples meet, eclipsing meeting through friends for the first time around 2013. Moreover, among the couples who meet online, the proportion who have met through the mediation of third persons has declined over time. We find that Internet meeting is displacing the roles that family and friends once played in bringing couples together.
I haven't looked at the underlying data (but its publicly available - yay!), but it does sound from the abstract and the dataset's website like the author may be (and the article definitely moreso) reading into the fact that it's online too much, and not really looking into the actual dynamics of the ways people interact online. They mention "mediation" by friends, but it's not clear to me if one or both of (1) meeting at an event hosted by a mutual friend and (2) being exposed to each other because of a mutual online friend are considered "mediation" by the friend. I know a lot of couples have first interacted because they were friends-of-friends (i.e. sliding into the Instagram DMs), but there was no active mediation (i.e. setting up) from the friend. It's all passive. Other than the fact that more socialization is done online in general, those situations aren't that different with respect to how important the friend is.
The article then mentions "algorithms", which I think is a bit generous considering how popular the apps are that don't match you up based on much more than gender preferences and location. Instead, you just go for volume online and evaluate the match in-person or through subsequent chat. It seems like match-making algorithms have decreased in perceived importance as online dating has matured. e-Harmony used to push it big time, but it seems like the Tinders of the world absolutely dominate now.
- Sohcahtoa82 7y agoIf you're quoting something, prefix the line with a > symbol rather than 4 spaces. Quoting with 4 spaces is intended for entering code, and it messes up formatting if the line is long.