I appreciate some of the comments about being thoughtful, systematic. After a 24-year marriage followed by divorce, I spent a great deal of time analyzing what

I appreciate some of the comments about being thoughtful, systematic. After a 24-year marriage followed by divorce, I spent a great deal of time analyzing what lessons I needed to learn (plenty), and after my remarriage (I am very grateful!), I posted this (the dating link is the ~ 4th bullet), which includes a document I wrote about the process, and a lot of other info I have collected since. It is influenced heavily by my beliefs (obviously), and represents a lot of work, and desire for others to be happy. I think it is a very simple site with much info. I think real, true love is a decision to faithfully be there and serve a person through thick and thin, and then sticking with it. It is best if that decision is well-made. There are many thoughts here (based on experience, research and lots of observation). Comments welcome (but I probably won't make the site very pretty anyway :) . http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854592298.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854592298.html (It also includes (buried in there somewhere) a reference to a relative's ~$4 ebook on free or very inexpensive dating ideas (and why dating a variety of people matters--she married #72 and they seem very happy several years later), but maybe I should add (on request..) a link to her blog entry where she posted 100 ideas....)