A majority of state electors pick the president. The president won the most states, so he is president. In the EU, is Ireland less important than Germany? Why

A majority of state electors pick the president. The president won the most states, so he is president. In the EU, is Ireland less important than Germany? Why doesn’t Germany get to pick the EU president each time? Since Germany has over 80 million people, they could team up with France and simply own the EU. Ireland and Poland would be forced to go along with whatever Germany and France wanted. Or, they would leave the EU. If California and New York picked the president every single time, why would other states bother staying in the Union? If you just have to win New York City and Los Angeles and Chicago, then every single policy proposal would simply be to benefit those voters alone. You could deny federal protections and funding to every other part of the country because you’d rather have more money to spend in New York City. It would become just like the Hunger Games where the “districts” would serve the capitol. The current system has worked for 200+ years. Just because some people didn’t like outcome, doesn’t make the system broken.