3 ms·

I told her within 30 minutes of meeting her that I was leaving in a few days and there was no possibility at all of a long term relationship. She said she hadn

I told her within 30 minutes of meeting her that I was leaving in a few days and there was no possibility at all of a long term relationship. She said she hadn't gotten laid in months and stripped off her clothes as soon as we got back to the hotel, so I think she was just kind of desperate to have sex with any acceptably attractive guy. She was also over 40, if that makes any difference and the gender ratios are even more massively skewed for older women in Eastern Europe. This kind of thing will never happen in the tech heavy areas most HN readers inhabit where there are vastly more men than women.

strenholme 7y ago
Well, the important thing is to be caring and empathetic about her feelings. That’s why I don’t feel comfortable sleeping with a woman unless I have a strong sense of where she is emotionally, and am sure she isn’t using sex to cover up some emotional struggle she may have. If I sense a potential sexual partner has some negative stuff going on in her life, I would rather help her feel better than have her cover up her feelings by sleeping with me. It may be worthwhile to still keep in touch with her on social media (If in a long term relationship, maybe not).