When I did dating I hated it. It was painful and stressful. It took me like three years of active going through it to find my wife, who by the way is wonderful

When I did dating I hated it. It was painful and stressful. It took me like three years of active going through it to find my wife, who by the way is wonderful. I hope I will never have to do it again. Looking at it in retrospective, I think maybe I did it wrong, because it’s supposed to be enjoyable, I think. But I was clueless back then. Who knows.