It really depends on the platform and how you go about communicating. (Note: I'm a guy.. so consider that for my experience/opinions) OkCupid doesn't really d

It really depends on the platform and how you go about communicating. (Note: I'm a guy.. so consider that for my experience/opinions) OkCupid doesn't really do much for those who want to communicate. (It should close you off to people who haven't already said they're interested) As a guy, unless you're a sadist, you have to spam. The best way that I've heard of is to have a generic/catchy text and slightly modify it based on the profile. Most women who are looking at the messages aren't giving a lot of consideration to each message. (Pure economics) Plus they won't pursue. (Nothing is stopping them. They don't even on Bumble [hi and . aren't starting messages ladies]) Also, from my experience the best thing you have to do on these platforms is to: 1. Boost your pictures 2. Boost your profile content (get it reviewed by people who know what they're talking about) [See their success, r/OkCupid is really low quality feedback, but it's better than a lot of other feedback that I've gotten] 3. Find a way to get ranked better by their algorithm (i.e. boosts on tinder) 4. Prioritize messaging people who have already stated their interest in your first (Buy A list to see who liked you)