> If you're not good at it, get good at it. Find someone at the company who is, and watch what they do, get in their orbit, and learn. How do I get good at bei

> If you're not good at it, get good at it. Find someone at the company who is, and watch what they do, get in their orbit, and learn. How do I get good at being able to tell who's good at it? Because most days it feels to me like there are exactly two levels of social skills: 1) Everyone else, who rehearsed that day's script a dozen times 2) Me, who didn't get the script and has to constantly improvise