Absolutely, part of my journey is to start asking for other people to come halfway. I bend over backwards to try to think about other people and be considerate

Absolutely, part of my journey is to start asking for other people to come halfway. I bend over backwards to try to think about other people and be considerate and thoughtful because it doesn't come automatically, but it seems like a lot of neurotypical folks are unwilling or unable to do the same in reverse. Frankly I've been a lot happier since I stopped being quite so unobtrusive and easy to get along with.