I don't necessarily object to the generalization that mothers are more involved and concerned. What I find objectionable is implying that this quality of mother

I don't necessarily object to the generalization that mothers are more involved and concerned. What I find objectionable is implying that this quality of mothers has ruined childhood. The "dads who think like moms" comment also seems disdainful, like there's something feminine or weak about dads who are more concerned.