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I need just one thing: a way to get rid of a bad habit that doesn't involve changing the circumstances in which I have that habit. I'm a Web developer with a m

I need just one thing: a way to get rid of a bad habit that doesn't involve changing the circumstances in which I have that habit. I'm a Web developer with a mindless tic-like habit of opening sites like Reddit and HN all the time. Even a second after closing it. I can't very well get rid of Web browsers. Edit: ohh, but the tip of going to a place where I've never procrastinated before and sitting down to think what I actually want to do next, that doesn't involve a Web browser. Nice.

vadansky 7y ago
Edit: ohh, but the tip of going to a place where I've never procrastinated before and sitting down to think what I actually want to do next, that doesn't involve a Web browser. Nice. That is a great idea, but what do you call it when I do not want to do it because I start thinking about all the awesome things I could have done in my life if I started doing that earlier?
- Scarblac 7y ago
  Midlife crisis? Life? Last week I sat down with a notebook and wrote down my thoughts about what all my problems in life boil down to, how I should deal with each of them, what my next actions are... And then I noticed I was using an old notebook and on the first pages I had written almost the exact same things, in 2011. Except I was much more stressed about them then than I am now. Becoming wiser apparently means thinking the exact same thoughts as ever but being more relaxed about them.
misterman101 7y ago
What's worked for me every time I get in that routine is to force myself to do one to five push ups every time I think about switching tabs. During that time I think about what it is that I really want to be doing. After a while I automatically skip to this step without having the desire to refresh HN.
- Bootwizard 7y ago
  I used this to quit Facebook. It's an almost Pavlovian trick. You start to associate your habit with a negative connotation because you know that a short workout will follow.
- Scarblac 7y ago
  The problem is that I don't think about switching tabs anymore, it's really completely brainless. To the point that I sometimes do it in the middle of talking to people (while sitting behind my desk), who will point it out to me, and then I will close the tab. And then re-open it a few seconds later while still talking to them. ctrl-T O enter, for old.reddit.com. It's really a true habit. There is an extension where you can limit the number of tabs you have open, I'm going to try that again. Limiting myself to 1 should lead to some conscious thought, after those keystrokes fail a few times.
read_if_gay_ 7y ago
https://freedom.to/ https://freedom.to/
trefn 7y ago
I have a similar tic. I just edit my hosts file to redirect those requests to localhost. Then when I mindlessly navigate to one of those sites it doesn't work and I realize I did it unconsciously. I do the same for gmail because I have the same tic for checking my mail. If I actually want to go to one of those sites I just edit the hosts file and comment out the redirect line. On my mac, the /etc/hosts file looks like: # # # Host Database # # localhost is used to configure the loopback interface # when the system is booting. Do not change this entry. ## 127.0.0.1 localhost 255.255.255.255 broadcasthost ::1 localhost fe80::1%lo0 localhost 127.0.0.1 news.ycombinator.com twitter.com www.facebook.com reddit.com 127.0.0.1 mail.google.com
- Scarblac 7y ago
  I do that too! But then of course there also the moments when I am really procrastinating and I remove them again... but that's a dumb excuse as it's much easier to solve than the subconscious problem, thanks for reminding me.
noah_boy 7y ago
This works great for me: http://www.stayfocusd.com/ http://www.stayfocusd.com/ You can limit your time on specified sites

vadansky 7y ago

Edit: ohh, but the tip of going to a place where I've never procrastinated before and sitting down to think what I actually want to do next, that doesn't involve a Web browser. Nice. That is a great idea, but what do you call it when I do not want to do it because I start thinking about all the awesome things I could have done in my life if I started doing that earlier?

Scarblac 7y ago
Midlife crisis? Life? Last week I sat down with a notebook and wrote down my thoughts about what all my problems in life boil down to, how I should deal with each of them, what my next actions are... And then I noticed I was using an old notebook and on the first pages I had written almost the exact same things, in 2011. Except I was much more stressed about them then than I am now. Becoming wiser apparently means thinking the exact same thoughts as ever but being more relaxed about them.

misterman101 7y ago

What's worked for me every time I get in that routine is to force myself to do one to five push ups every time I think about switching tabs. During that time I think about what it is that I really want to be doing. After a while I automatically skip to this step without having the desire to refresh HN.

Bootwizard 7y ago
I used this to quit Facebook. It's an almost Pavlovian trick. You start to associate your habit with a negative connotation because you know that a short workout will follow.
Scarblac 7y ago
The problem is that I don't think about switching tabs anymore, it's really completely brainless. To the point that I sometimes do it in the middle of talking to people (while sitting behind my desk), who will point it out to me, and then I will close the tab. And then re-open it a few seconds later while still talking to them. ctrl-T O enter, for old.reddit.com. It's really a true habit. There is an extension where you can limit the number of tabs you have open, I'm going to try that again. Limiting myself to 1 should lead to some conscious thought, after those keystrokes fail a few times.

read_if_gay_ 7y ago

https://freedom.to/ https://freedom.to/

trefn 7y ago

I have a similar tic. I just edit my hosts file to redirect those requests to localhost. Then when I mindlessly navigate to one of those sites it doesn't work and I realize I did it unconsciously. I do the same for gmail because I have the same tic for checking my mail. If I actually want to go to one of those sites I just edit the hosts file and comment out the redirect line. On my mac, the /etc/hosts file looks like: # # # Host Database # # localhost is used to configure the loopback interface # when the system is booting. Do not change this entry. ## 127.0.0.1 localhost 255.255.255.255 broadcasthost ::1 localhost fe80::1%lo0 localhost 127.0.0.1 news.ycombinator.com twitter.com www.facebook.com reddit.com 127.0.0.1 mail.google.com

Scarblac 7y ago
I do that too! But then of course there also the moments when I am really procrastinating and I remove them again... but that's a dumb excuse as it's much easier to solve than the subconscious problem, thanks for reminding me.

noah_boy 7y ago

This works great for me: http://www.stayfocusd.com/ http://www.stayfocusd.com/ You can limit your time on specified sites