I have a vague idea that maybe some people need "framework" for socializing. Making it clearer task like framework for developing applications. I still don't kn

I have a vague idea that maybe some people need "framework" for socializing. Making it clearer task like framework for developing applications. I still don't know how that "framework" should look like. I am a person who can't "just call and talk to him/her aimlessly" or "just ask friends to go out" as some relatives recommended me to do. I can spend hours trying to crack the task of "socializing" as if it is some hard puzzle.