It's very hard for me to disentangle skill and enjoyment. I feel like I'd enjoy socializing more and would energize me if only I was better at it. It is certain

It's very hard for me to disentangle skill and enjoyment. I feel like I'd enjoy socializing more and would energize me if only I was better at it. It is certainly something that gets easier with practice but some people are just generally not that verbal or good at reading social situations in large groups quick enough to jump in the banter quickly. Or if they can, it may require conscious effort that can get tiring.