> I don't believe it is incumbent upon me to alter the manner in which I speak and write for the convenience of another. It absolutely is incumbent upon you t

> I don't believe it is incumbent upon me to alter the manner in which I speak and write for the convenience of another. It absolutely is incumbent upon you to show people respect in a workplace or school setting. That means not calling Black people the N-word, or mocking Asian accents, or deliberately using the wrong pronouns for trans people. > grammatical horror English is already full of them, one more won't do any harm. > that "they" as a singular simply feels clumsy and unnatural when spoken. Not once you get used to it.