With that definition we are saying that women have toxic masculinity if/when they culturally expect men to not worry or be anxious. Which is not how I have see

With that definition we are saying that women have toxic masculinity if/when they culturally expect men to not worry or be anxious. Which is not how I have seen anyone use the term. People who want to talk about harmful gender stereotyping and gender expectations tend to use the term "gender stereotyping" and "gender expectations". "toxic masculinity" in contrast get used when a person want to express a negative connotation targeting at men exclusively, usually with a hostile generalization of men as a demographic.