If you literally have problems feeding your children, you might want to change employers, or, if opportunities are that slim where you are, change field of ende

If you literally have problems feeding your children, you might want to change employers, or, if opportunities are that slim where you are, change field of endeavour completely. If you don't mean it literally, there's no reason to conjure up an "elite" spectre and create a false argument against that to engage with the gp.