I'm completely with you. Never had problems swiftly identifying common ground and starting a conversation - isn't that what profiles and messages are for? Seem

I'm completely with you. Never had problems swiftly identifying common ground and starting a conversation - isn't that what profiles and messages are for? Seems some people just aren't happy with the poor response rates on dating sites, but that's just how it goes... not everyone you find attractive will find you attractive. I imagine that the "cheating" method wouldn't produce better long term results, as not cheating means those you talk to genuinely want to connect with you.