I don't really care to comment on the topic at hand, because the answer was excellent and needs nothing further from me. But this link brought me to a quick rea

I don't really care to comment on the topic at hand, because the answer was excellent and needs nothing further from me. But this link brought me to a quick reading of his other writing in The Village Voice as I ate my burrito. This leads me to the following question: OMG, how have I missed this guy's stuff? I could very much see how he might not be for you, but he has really struck a chord with me, mainly by pointing out my own wrong thinking and not "how do I deal with assholes in my life?" (turns out, I'm the asshole). Bookmarked for binge reading later.