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Citizens shooting each other is conflict resolution, which only becomes a police issue when people know no other resolution than violence. By the time conflict
by spodek 7y ago
Citizens shooting each other is conflict resolution, which only becomes a police issue when people know no other resolution than violence. By the time conflict reaches the police, it's escalated to where third parties like the police can only clean up after.
If an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, teaching social and emotional skills to children would help a lot, though would take a generation to see widespread results. Our schools not only don't teach social and emotional skills, they teach submission to authoritarian rule and remove what could teach social and emotional skills: recess, free play, the arts (doing them not history or appreciation). Schools are among the most authoritarian institutions. (I recommend Peter Gray's Freedom to Learn blog https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-learn https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-learn, especially
Children’s Freedom: A Human Rights Perspective: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-learn/201902/children-s-freedom-human-rights-perspective https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/freedom-learn/201902...).
Schools could help a lot, specifically, teaching skills through experience, not abstract facts to fill out bubbles on standardized tests.
- Ancalagon 7y agoCommenting here for later, thank you for the recommendations
- spodek 7y agoI hope they help. You might also be interested in my books, which teach the social and emotional skills of leadership, initiative, and entrepreneurship, based on courses I teach at NYU. Initiative: https://www.amazon.com/Initiative-Proven-Method-Bring-Passions/dp/1733039902 https://www.amazon.com/Initiative-Proven-Method-Bring-Passio... Leadership Step by Step: https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Step-Become-Person-Others/dp/0814437931 https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Step-Become-Person-Others/... One of my past students used the Initiative skills to teach the Leadership material to youths in Gaza https://leadpalestine.com https://leadpalestine.com. Every situation is unique and it's just one project, but his project shows promise of teaching youths before they get caught up in violence. He tells me that the program helps change views of leadership from command-and-control, authoritarian to based in understanding and support, though I'm oversimplifying. I'm just sharing one example.