Is resiliency not considered a virtue? Is an addition of resiliency not a net benefit, all other things being equal? Coming from a work/lifestyle culture where

Is resiliency not considered a virtue? Is an addition of resiliency not a net benefit, all other things being equal? Coming from a work/lifestyle culture where "Harden the F-- Up" is uttered almost daily, I'm not seeing how urging a coworker to upgrade their fortitude is a problem.