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>Every rotation around the sun my opinion is solidified that we're all just wingin' it, no matter the age and success can happen whenever. One of the most impa
by drspacemonkey 7y ago
>Every rotation around the sun my opinion is solidified that we're all just wingin' it, no matter the age and success can happen whenever.
One of the most impactful realizations I've had in my entire life is that, with _incredibly_ few exceptions, everyone is fumbling. All the time. Regardless of age. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.
After I was able to fully internalize that, life got easier. I stopped putting so much pressure on myself. It became "okay" if I didn't know how to deal with a situation, or felt completely overwhelmed. I'm still fumbling, but I've come to terms with it and I feel much better as a result.
If I ever feel really confident I've "figured out" life, that's when I'll get really worried.