Being equal can easily discriminate against anyone because your definition of equality does not match everyone else's. So, in your case, being equal means that

Being equal can easily discriminate against anyone because your definition of equality does not match everyone else's. So, in your case, being equal means that handicapped people aren't treated equally. What if you set your arbitrary equality definition to only apply to white people? Now you're being equal by your personal standards again but you just regressed to the 1800s. Your version of equality is worthless, your backbone is just an excuse to make yourself feel better.