Communicate. A LOT. And listen to her, at least twice as much as you speak. You know... the whole two ears - one mouth cliché? :) Is she your best friend? If

Communicate. A LOT. And listen to her, at least twice as much as you speak. You know... the whole two ears - one mouth cliché? :) Is she your best friend? If she isn't, get to a place in your relationship where she is. Include her in your plans, your thoughts, your dreams. Also, being a tech geek, you likely have the "problem solving" mentality. Understand that some days, she will be emotional, and perhaps even irrational... this is not the time to "fix" her. Just listen. Women are responders. Typically, if you take good care of her, there's nothing she wouldn't do for you. It is simple, but not at all easy. Be prepared for HARD WORK. :)