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I briefly considered doing something like this when I was a senior in high school trying to find a way to college. My mother was poorer than dirt, and I lived w
by MrLeap 7y ago
I briefly considered doing something like this when I was a senior in high school trying to find a way to college. My mother was poorer than dirt, and I lived with her until she kicked me out of the house at 14.
My father took me in from then. From a very early age my father indicated I should make my own way through school. He'd shout "Full ride!" every time I'd get a B or less on a report card.
It was formative enough that I got a savings account when I was 10 years old or so. From then on, I saved almost all the money I got from mowing lawns, birthdays, and hanging papa johns mailers on doors at apartments. By 14, I had only accumulated about 500$, but every cent was post marked for my future tuition. I was dumb with excitement every time I got one of those ~.39 cent interest credits on my mailed statements. It was pretty much the only mail I ever received, once a month. When my mother kicked me out, she emptied my account immediately. By policy, an adult was required to have their name on the account of a minor. Even though it's not really that much money, I'm still a little bitter about it.
When I was reading through strategies for filling out the FAFSA, saying I lived with her would have been a haymaker. I didn't when it occurred to me that any mail to her house indicating what I had done would immediately set the wheels in motion for her to fraudulently sue my father for child support.
If it weren't for the fear of her, I suspect I would have done it, and felt no shame in doing so.
I've always felt like there should have been SOME consolation prize. Sorry tax payers. Lucky for you I never did it. Lucky for me my father stepped up despite years saying he wouldn't give me a dime. He ended up covering what my loans, small scholarship and job income didn't.
- cellularmitosis 7y agoIf it is any consolation, I have a twin sister who managed to squirrel away $2k by the end of high school, while I had $50 to my name. When FAFSA came back, I qualified for exactly $2k more in aid than she did. If your $500 hadn’t been taken from you, it likely would have affected the amount of aid you had received. (This was my first “Don’t naively do the right thing and expect the system to reward you. Do the right thing by individuals, but when it comes to the system, read the rules and leverage them all you can” moment)
- toomuchtodo 7y agoFun fact: Retirement assets don’t count towards you financial asset calculation for aid. Fund that Roth IRA first kids!