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While there's an issue, I kind of feel its a temporary gap as society changes. A generation or two ago, family was everything. Today, less so. My grandparent's
by shados 7y ago
While there's an issue, I kind of feel its a temporary gap as society changes.
A generation or two ago, family was everything. Today, less so. My grandparent's entire social circle was their family, children and grandchildren. My mother was half and half. My entire social circle is made out of people I met through speciality interests and made friends with (board games, videogames, engineering meetups, etc).
I'm honestly at capacity: I could not really afford to keep touch with any more people than I actually do. But unlike family, those people are "replaceable". Don't read this as "disposable". Rather, with family, if they move away or die, you can't (easily) get more. With friends though, you always can.
If you have extensive channels to tap for to meet more people and potential friends, you'll never be lonely against your will. The new generation is more and more that way, and there's a clash with the old one. Once the majority's like that though, it won't be an issue. The old people 30-40 years from now will be playing MMORPGs, board games and going to Pax together when they need to see friends. It's already happening.
- orbifold 7y agoThis is a very self selecting group you are talking about, I assure you that most adults and even teens have zero interest in any of the activities you mention.
- shados 7y agoThese are examples. If its not board games its going to be knitting. If its not knitting its going to be skydiving, and if its not that it will be something else. At the end of the day, to thrive in the current world on a social, cultural, and emotional level, you need to have SOMETHING getting you out of bed that isn't work/kids/eating/drinking. If the only thing you live for is going out to the local bar's happy hours with the bros, yeah, you probably will have some social issues later down the road.