I would argue that treating someone well doesn’t require a lifetime of book study. Rather it requires the opposite, to see the person fully as what they are _r

I would argue that treating someone well doesn’t require a lifetime of book study. Rather it requires the opposite, to see the person fully as what they are _right now_, and to respond accordingly without a trace of ideology. To do anything else is to be engaging with your idea of the person, and your own idea of what is “good”, rather than what actually is.