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I don't understand how that's not being self critical. On finding that they're not well liked they thought up aspects of their personality others might not like
by austhrow743 7y ago
I don't understand how that's not being self critical. On finding that they're not well liked they thought up aspects of their personality others might not like.
- yjftsjthsd-h 7y agoIt's a list of things that others might dislike, which are not under their own control. Thus shifting the blame onto others rather than considering that one's own actions may be the problem.
- austhrow743 7y agoThey can't control what others dislike or control the having of those traits; they certainly can control what they do going forward though and this information is useful in shaping that. I also disagree heavily that things are either under your control or the fault of others.