This really depends. Would say the biggest factor is kids. Also, a revelation I’ve had as a millennial gay man is because the rate of having kids is relatively

This really depends. Would say the biggest factor is kids. Also, a revelation I’ve had as a millennial gay man is because the rate of having kids is relatively low among gay men in particular, anecdotally gay male friends stay in touch at a higher rate than straight counterparts even as we get older. Not necessarily always a good thing, though. Especially in SF gay culture feels even more “Peter Pan” like.