The problem with OKCupid rejection is that rejection is not real. You can easily spam out messages to all the hot girls and "rejection" is really a non-reply.

The problem with OKCupid rejection is that rejection is not real. You can easily spam out messages to all the hot girls and "rejection" is really a non-reply. Meaning that "rejection" is invisible. In real life rejection means a "walk of shame" away from the girl, probably while your friends are watching, probably while they're laughing at you. OkCupid incorporates none of that.