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> poor impulse control and rejection sensitivity > Fixing underlying mental health problems will improve your professional and personal life! To what degree t
by badpun 7y ago
> poor impulse control and rejection sensitivity
> Fixing underlying mental health problems will improve your professional and personal life!
To what degree these are fixable though? I've always though of these as just people having different personalities and tempers, out of which some are unfortunately very hard to live with. I'm not sure if we can change our personalities to a significant degree. Happy to be proven wrong though!
- jdavis703 7y agoSomething that might seem trivial like a sleight at work, a driver cutting me off, or somebody bumping in to me feels like a deliberate, personal attack. Therapuetics can reduce that (at least for me), which means I'm more likely to respond to a given situation with a proportionate response, i.e. ignoring the situation or addressing the root cause. I have read some articles that this is related to ADD causing a state of hyperarousal, but I'm having a hard time finding genuine medical research on this theory. If the theory is true, it would hold that reducing hyperarousal reduces the magnitude of angry feelings for a given situation. Also, I believe that we can change our personalities. As I've gone to therapy, integrated mindfulness and attempted to get mental health issues resolved I've seen my personality on the Myers-Briggs test alter over time. While I realize Myers-Briggs has a lot of faults, it's the professionally administered personality test that goes back the longest for me so it's an informative baseline.