Have you considered that people reveal different sides of themselves to varying degrees based on context? Most people have something interesting to say, if the

Have you considered that people reveal different sides of themselves to varying degrees based on context? Most people have something interesting to say, if they don't share it with you it's either because they're not comfortable with you or not comfortable sharing it in that place. Bob from Accounting isn't going to talk to you about his intricate love of Georgian architecture at the work BBQ.