That blows my mind, actually, for two reasons: 1. If you're a single person, even in the Bay Area, I have no idea what you're spending that money on; and 2. I

That blows my mind, actually, for two reasons: 1. If you're a single person, even in the Bay Area, I have no idea what you're spending that money on; and 2. In 10-20 years when those same people are no longer a "culture fit" I wonder if they'll rue their frrivolous ways. So being poor or being close to it affects people in different ways IME. For some, this means spend as soon as you have it or it'll just go away (eg there is a noticeable uptick in large TV purchases around the EITC). Others will live ridiculously frugally. Some will be super-driven. Others almost defeatist. In my case there was a time growing up when we were "poor". This is Australian "poor" not American "poor", which is a whole different thing. I don't mean homeless either. Just money was really really tight, as in baking bread because we couldn't afford to buy it, that sort of thing. This actually wasn't obvious to me at the time. Many who have been "poor" IME never escape the feeling that even in times of bounty everything may still disappear tomorrow. There is much less sense of security. I really think this is one thing that many people who have always had money just don't understand. And I don't mean "wealthy". I just mean they never grew up in an environment where they had serious money worries. Anyway, the income potential in Australia in software is substantially lower than the US. I was fortunate enough to get a job in Big Tech (NYC) some years ago. I noticed that I'd feel "bad" when I "wasted" $20 on something, like a shirt I didn't end up liking. A few years ago I ran the numbers on how much I'd saved since coming to the US and honestly I was shocked, as in up until that point I had no idea just how little of my income I was actually spending. And this is a holdover from that psychological lack of financial security. To put this in perspective after paying all living and food expenses, my discretionary purchases and so on that I was still saving 30-40% of my gross income (including 401k). I'd say my income is pretty typical for Big Tech, nothing extraordinary. Thing is, I actually have no idea what I'd the rest on if I decided to live paycheck to paycheck. So when I hear stories like yours I'm honestly befuddled.