>Again, who gets to make that decision? Who gets to set the criteria for making that decision? The people you're talking to. These are all just social mores, b

>Again, who gets to make that decision? Who gets to set the criteria for making that decision? The people you're talking to. These are all just social mores, but you are the one that deals with the fallout. There's pushback on identity first discourse because it's often seen as distasteful.