Well sure but my point is there are people, like me, with no sexual or romantic interest in people so even if they have nothing else to do, they by default do n

Well sure but my point is there are people, like me, with no sexual or romantic interest in people so even if they have nothing else to do, they by default do not want to have a partner. Saying "I wish my children won't be a cat lady" sounds to me like "I wish my children won't be gay". I hope someone will write a constructive comment so that I can understand why I'm being downvoted.