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I had a couple of situations where airbnb was a life saver (victim of abusive relationship). There are not many places where a male can seek a shelter as most o

I had a couple of situations where airbnb was a life saver (victim of abusive relationship). There are not many places where a male can seek a shelter as most of them are being targeted towards women and children. In my city hotels are extremely expensive so airbnb was a good option to have. I understand that tourists can be nuisance but I wouldn't like it to be banned.

djsumdog 7y ago
What about hostels? Sure you're in a share room, but you can often tell by reviews if a hostel is a "party hostel" or more all ages. And if it's not, just book for one or two nights. I practically lived out of different hostels, and one a few peoples' couches, for about 11 months once: https://khanism.org/perspective/minimalism/ https://khanism.org/perspective/minimalism/
- notabot4000 7y ago
  Depending on the city/hostel, they might not allow a city resident to stay in their hostel. Aside from that, in dealing with a difficult situation like the parent comment mentions I don’t think many people would enjoy being in a many-person bunk room with zero privacy. Anecdotally, I’ve had to stay in a hostel due to relationship issues and it was awful, more expensive than an airbnb, but was the only thing I could find last minute.
- TeMPOraL 7y ago
  I'll second the hostels, and don't dismiss them just because apparently in the US they imply bunk beds in large rooms. I've stayed in hostels quite a bit, and every one had places rented by the room, not by bed, and plenty of single and double rooms. Hostels, at least in (most of?) Europe, are essentially cheaper hotels, usually without a minibar and with much less upselling. Or, in terms I know from US cinema, they're like motels without the car culture aspect.
  - mbel 7y ago
    From my experience in Europe: hostels imply a bunk bed in shared room here too. I just made a quick search on booking.com for a hostel in Warsaw and nearly all of the offers were shared dormitories.
    - TeMPOraL 7y ago
      Interesting. Could be that booking.com uses the US meaning of the term? I must have stayed in something like 30 different hostels in Poland over the course of last decade; it was always in single bed or two-bed rooms, with the whole room rented for me. I never used booking.com, though, but always did a Google search for "hostele w $city", and reserved room via phone or web form.
      - aembleton 7y ago
        hostelworld.com is based out of Ireland and they specialise in allowing you to search for shared dorm type hostels.
mrguyorama 7y ago
Shouldn't we fix that by acknowledging that men can be the victims of abuse instead of forcing those in lower income areas to deal with the downsides of tourists?

djsumdog 7y ago

What about hostels? Sure you're in a share room, but you can often tell by reviews if a hostel is a "party hostel" or more all ages. And if it's not, just book for one or two nights. I practically lived out of different hostels, and one a few peoples' couches, for about 11 months once: https://khanism.org/perspective/minimalism/ https://khanism.org/perspective/minimalism/

notabot4000 7y ago
Depending on the city/hostel, they might not allow a city resident to stay in their hostel. Aside from that, in dealing with a difficult situation like the parent comment mentions I don’t think many people would enjoy being in a many-person bunk room with zero privacy. Anecdotally, I’ve had to stay in a hostel due to relationship issues and it was awful, more expensive than an airbnb, but was the only thing I could find last minute.
TeMPOraL 7y ago
I'll second the hostels, and don't dismiss them just because apparently in the US they imply bunk beds in large rooms. I've stayed in hostels quite a bit, and every one had places rented by the room, not by bed, and plenty of single and double rooms. Hostels, at least in (most of?) Europe, are essentially cheaper hotels, usually without a minibar and with much less upselling. Or, in terms I know from US cinema, they're like motels without the car culture aspect.
- mbel 7y ago
  From my experience in Europe: hostels imply a bunk bed in shared room here too. I just made a quick search on booking.com for a hostel in Warsaw and nearly all of the offers were shared dormitories.
  - TeMPOraL 7y ago
    Interesting. Could be that booking.com uses the US meaning of the term? I must have stayed in something like 30 different hostels in Poland over the course of last decade; it was always in single bed or two-bed rooms, with the whole room rented for me. I never used booking.com, though, but always did a Google search for "hostele w $city", and reserved room via phone or web form.
    - aembleton 7y ago
      hostelworld.com is based out of Ireland and they specialise in allowing you to search for shared dorm type hostels.

mrguyorama 7y ago

Shouldn't we fix that by acknowledging that men can be the victims of abuse instead of forcing those in lower income areas to deal with the downsides of tourists?