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Interesting writeup, but I find in a lot of these "millionaire by age X" stories the ego is far bigger than the bank account. It's nice to think a 500k income i

Interesting writeup, but I find in a lot of these "millionaire by age X" stories the ego is far bigger than the bank account. It's nice to think a 500k income is fuck-you money but it's not, you're still beholden to a lot of people. If you have to stress about money (claiming being rich is a full-time job sounds like stressing), you don't have fuck-you money. I'm not talking down to writer, but having a proper money manager (not the same as a stock broker) would alleviate a lot of the downsides of being rich that he listed. Fortunately managers that used to only take enormously wealthy clients are branching into lower wealth ones, so it's easier than ever to get sound investment advice. Not sure there's anything of great substance to take away from it.

JMTQp8lwXL 7y ago
IMO if you have a net worth under $10M, you don't need materially different financial advice than a middle class worker saving in their 401(k): use low-cost index funds. Consider a lazy 3-fund portfolio: U.S. Stocks, International Stocks, and Bonds. Hold those in proportions that match your risk profile (young = more stocks, near retirement = shift into bonds, etc).
- mikorym 7y ago
  I know this is tangental, but it fascinates me that you could hold a stock that pays <5% dividend yield whereas the bulk of the economic impact is wages, salaries, business with other companies, etc. The assumption that your stock price necessarily should go up I think is an assumption that will change somewhat in the next 50 or 100 years. In this sense, the rich, those with pension funds, but largely the financial managers dictate a lot of what happens in the economy.
- Phillipharryt 7y ago
  I would disagree. With a net worth in the millions (but still under 10) you should consider investing in property and perhaps even art. These are things middle class workers are not looking into as much. Index funds can't match the potential returns that being a property investor does. It also allows you to turn your wealth into an asset that can be leveraged for further investment. Stocks are how you keep your wealth steadily increasing instead of stagnating, property is how you turn that 5 million into 20. Money managers will help you with this, even getting a trusted real estate agent that is your go-to would be helpful.
  - JMTQp8lwXL 7y ago
    You're less likely to make seasoned choices with property. When you buy an index fund, you get everything -- the winners and the losers. Let's say you have $10M and want to put 20% into real estate. $2M will only get so many properties (a handful?) -- they could depreciate, they're highly illiquid, and you could end up buying in the wrong neighborhood (though, say, adjacent neighborhood appreciated much more). It's kind of like throwing darts. No real estate agent 40 years ago would've told you that $300k lots with homes are now worth millions, but a mile away those same sized lots are now worth $500k (this is actually true in my area). The opportunity cost is too high, that you'll make the wrong choice, picking property that appreciates poorly, and had you just stuck with an index fund, you would've done better.
    - Phillipharryt 7y ago
      The evidence is against you. Rich people don't just wack money in the holy index fund of stable returns. Investing in properties is more complicated than buying, waiting, and flipping. With 2 million dollars cash you could probably buy 7 or 8 apartments (leverage is pretty useful), you would rent these out and hope they appreciate, or depreciate by less than the income from rent. It's a very reasonable investment, it just takes capital to begin with, the risk is lower than you think because as I mentioned, you can rent the property which hedges against depreciation. And even in the case of depreciation it can be favourable for tax purposes, you make money through renting and you reduce your taxable income through selling for a loss, it's still a net positive investment. The index fund is the greatest thing to ever happen to casual investors, but with millions of dollars at your disposal you should no longer consider yourself part of that group. They're also not infallible, in the long run they're up but in the short run you can lose a lot of money in them, just like any investment.
Noumenon72 7y ago
When I made $45k I had fuck you money. I could (and did) quit my job and spend two years not working if I wanted to. I wasn't beholden to anybody at $45k, I had my own apartment, health insurance, car, and no debt. You may not be completely financially independent after one year at $500k, but you have the human capital to make a minimum of $50k for the rest of your life, so you can say fuck you to any job, any time.
- nothanksmydude 7y ago
  Apartment means landlord. Health insurance puts you at the mercy of underwriters and approval for coverage. You're not as free as you think
  - Noumenon72 7y ago
    My landlord is just a trading partner, he has no leverage over me because I can say "Fuck you, I'll rent somewhere else". You're right about the health insurance, I guess. Interestingly, even fuck-you money didn't help me with landlords. They didn't trust someone with no job and a big pile of cash. I ended up living with someone else but not able to get on their lease.
- Phillipharryt 7y ago
  You clearly didn't have fuck-you money. You could only quit your job for 2 years before presumably having to come back to work. I don't mean that in a rude way, it's just clear. Your last sentence is a little confusing, if you're implying you could use your human capital and work, you're clearly going to be beholden to other people, and can't say fuck you to "any job, any time". In addition to that, we're back to the idea that 50k a year is fuck-you money, which it's not. Long tangent incoming. Fuck-you money is getting confused with a comfortable level of money. Most people will never ever get close to fuck-you money. Fuck-you money is black cards and reservations almost anywhere because you tip ludicrous amounts. It's being told the plane is full so you just upgrade to first class (if you weren't in there to begin with). It's being able to turn down any job because you could easily live at the same comfort level without it. It's only working because the work brings in stupid amounts more cash (that you probably can't figure out where to spend) or it offers you more than that (influence, stimulation). Just being able to say no to a job is not the same as that.
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vackosar 7y ago
Would you say you have to have a big ego to actually post anything online? I am still grateful that people share info for free online regardless whether they have an ego or not. By the way, do you think you have to have some minimal ego to live i.e. that ego is biological necessity?
- Phillipharryt 7y ago
  I think you can post without a big ego, there are tutorials or articles that you can't feel the ego in, but this just wasn't one of them. And yes, a sense of self importance (not an enormously inflated one though) would be necessary to take care of yourself in my opinion.

JMTQp8lwXL 7y ago

IMO if you have a net worth under $10M, you don't need materially different financial advice than a middle class worker saving in their 401(k): use low-cost index funds. Consider a lazy 3-fund portfolio: U.S. Stocks, International Stocks, and Bonds. Hold those in proportions that match your risk profile (young = more stocks, near retirement = shift into bonds, etc).

mikorym 7y ago
I know this is tangental, but it fascinates me that you could hold a stock that pays <5% dividend yield whereas the bulk of the economic impact is wages, salaries, business with other companies, etc. The assumption that your stock price necessarily should go up I think is an assumption that will change somewhat in the next 50 or 100 years. In this sense, the rich, those with pension funds, but largely the financial managers dictate a lot of what happens in the economy.
Phillipharryt 7y ago
I would disagree. With a net worth in the millions (but still under 10) you should consider investing in property and perhaps even art. These are things middle class workers are not looking into as much. Index funds can't match the potential returns that being a property investor does. It also allows you to turn your wealth into an asset that can be leveraged for further investment. Stocks are how you keep your wealth steadily increasing instead of stagnating, property is how you turn that 5 million into 20. Money managers will help you with this, even getting a trusted real estate agent that is your go-to would be helpful.
- JMTQp8lwXL 7y ago
  You're less likely to make seasoned choices with property. When you buy an index fund, you get everything -- the winners and the losers. Let's say you have $10M and want to put 20% into real estate. $2M will only get so many properties (a handful?) -- they could depreciate, they're highly illiquid, and you could end up buying in the wrong neighborhood (though, say, adjacent neighborhood appreciated much more). It's kind of like throwing darts. No real estate agent 40 years ago would've told you that $300k lots with homes are now worth millions, but a mile away those same sized lots are now worth $500k (this is actually true in my area). The opportunity cost is too high, that you'll make the wrong choice, picking property that appreciates poorly, and had you just stuck with an index fund, you would've done better.
  - Phillipharryt 7y ago
    The evidence is against you. Rich people don't just wack money in the holy index fund of stable returns. Investing in properties is more complicated than buying, waiting, and flipping. With 2 million dollars cash you could probably buy 7 or 8 apartments (leverage is pretty useful), you would rent these out and hope they appreciate, or depreciate by less than the income from rent. It's a very reasonable investment, it just takes capital to begin with, the risk is lower than you think because as I mentioned, you can rent the property which hedges against depreciation. And even in the case of depreciation it can be favourable for tax purposes, you make money through renting and you reduce your taxable income through selling for a loss, it's still a net positive investment. The index fund is the greatest thing to ever happen to casual investors, but with millions of dollars at your disposal you should no longer consider yourself part of that group. They're also not infallible, in the long run they're up but in the short run you can lose a lot of money in them, just like any investment.

Noumenon72 7y ago

When I made $45k I had fuck you money. I could (and did) quit my job and spend two years not working if I wanted to. I wasn't beholden to anybody at $45k, I had my own apartment, health insurance, car, and no debt. You may not be completely financially independent after one year at $500k, but you have the human capital to make a minimum of $50k for the rest of your life, so you can say fuck you to any job, any time.

nothanksmydude 7y ago
Apartment means landlord. Health insurance puts you at the mercy of underwriters and approval for coverage. You're not as free as you think
- Noumenon72 7y ago
  My landlord is just a trading partner, he has no leverage over me because I can say "Fuck you, I'll rent somewhere else". You're right about the health insurance, I guess. Interestingly, even fuck-you money didn't help me with landlords. They didn't trust someone with no job and a big pile of cash. I ended up living with someone else but not able to get on their lease.
Phillipharryt 7y ago
You clearly didn't have fuck-you money. You could only quit your job for 2 years before presumably having to come back to work. I don't mean that in a rude way, it's just clear. Your last sentence is a little confusing, if you're implying you could use your human capital and work, you're clearly going to be beholden to other people, and can't say fuck you to "any job, any time". In addition to that, we're back to the idea that 50k a year is fuck-you money, which it's not. Long tangent incoming. Fuck-you money is getting confused with a comfortable level of money. Most people will never ever get close to fuck-you money. Fuck-you money is black cards and reservations almost anywhere because you tip ludicrous amounts. It's being told the plane is full so you just upgrade to first class (if you weren't in there to begin with). It's being able to turn down any job because you could easily live at the same comfort level without it. It's only working because the work brings in stupid amounts more cash (that you probably can't figure out where to spend) or it offers you more than that (influence, stimulation). Just being able to say no to a job is not the same as that.

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vackosar 7y ago

Would you say you have to have a big ego to actually post anything online? I am still grateful that people share info for free online regardless whether they have an ego or not. By the way, do you think you have to have some minimal ego to live i.e. that ego is biological necessity?

Phillipharryt 7y ago
I think you can post without a big ego, there are tutorials or articles that you can't feel the ego in, but this just wasn't one of them. And yes, a sense of self importance (not an enormously inflated one though) would be necessary to take care of yourself in my opinion.