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People are often afraid of speaking up. This ties in with the idea of the strong regretting silence as opposed to speaking up. Your version isn't as meaningful

• prodigal_erik 16y ago
  Shouldn't it be the weak who are more often silent out of fear? I deliberately avoid using my True Name here so that controversial positions won't affect my employability, and I wouldn't do that if I had fuck-you money and a permanent home (economic strength).
  • lionhearted 16y ago
    One time I lost a large deal because the buyer's boss came across a controversial piece I'd written, and didn't think I was a good fit with their buttoned-down formal organization. Later, I made a very similar deal for about 30% more money, that wouldn't have happened without losing the first one. I reckon, better to lose by boldness than lose by tameness. Either one can bite you, but at least you get some satisfaction out of losing for being too bold.