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> This doesn't mean that we shouldn't strive to do great things or encourage our children to do the same if they're inspired to. But before that, we need to lea
by akhilcacharya 7y ago
> This doesn't mean that we shouldn't strive to do great things or encourage our children to do the same if they're inspired to. But before that, we need to learn to be satisfied with a simple life just existing in the world as ourselves without any extraordinary achievements.
Amazingly put. Unfortunately (or perhaps fortunately, I’m of two minds on this) I’m convinced this is a feature rather than a bug of American society. Deriving self worth from accomplishments is force fed culturally in every direction, including places where I wouldn’t necessarily expect it like politics (see Trumps Ivy League name dropping and Buttigiegs support relying heavily on his Harvard credentials).
Of course, would society be better off otherwise? I’m not sure.
- danenania 7y agoIt's a complex question to be sure, but I do think we'd be better off without this unhealthy form of motivation. I think whatever we might lose in sheer GDP output, we'd gain many times more in quality of life and reduction of negative externalities.