Responding in such a way as to make this seem like a private conversation which happens to be available publicly, is perhaps another example of hidden power rel

Responding in such a way as to make this seem like a private conversation which happens to be available publicly, is perhaps another example of hidden power relations, to which we've become all too familiar. I don't know how to say this in the right way. It's never really about you - no matter how good it might feel. Not really.