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I think people get uppity when "common courtesy" becomes a policy proposal. I personally have no problem referring to someone by a preferred pronoun or whateve
by beatgammit 7y ago
I think people get uppity when "common courtesy" becomes a policy proposal.
I personally have no problem referring to someone by a preferred pronoun or whatever (though I'll ask that you choose one of the two traditional options), but I don't want it to become a policy that I have to comply with. If I'm forced to do something I would otherwise do if asked nicely, I will resist.
And that's where the culture part of it comes in. When I see stuff on the media, I think ahead to elections. I have no problem with PC culture on a personal level, but I absolutely don't want that to extend to the governmental or workplace levels. I applaud people for courageously being who they are instead of trying to present a false, but more socially familiar persona. However, that doesn't mean it should be illegal or against office policy to not follow personal requests, even if it takes a lot of courage to make them.
That is why I push back on PC culture. I think it all stems from holding freedom of speech to be inalienable. I want to interact with you in a respectful manner, but I don't want to be forced to.
- ZeroGravitas 7y agoThis approach seems absurd when applied to many equality laws that were controversial at the time but are no longer. For example, what if someone forced you legally to allow women to attend your school, or African-Americans to use your water fountain (which they generally do in various ways)? It appears you'd intentionally bar them because before you'd have had basic human decency if they asked you nicely, but now the law got involved you're going to become institutionally racist and sexist just to make a point about freedom? But presumably you didn't and don't do that kind of thing, so why threaten to do it in this case?