"Hello, my name is Cole and I can be an asshole. The definition posted of an asshole casts a very wide net making discussion difficult." It sounds like you hav

"Hello, my name is Cole and I can be an asshole. The definition posted of an asshole casts a very wide net making discussion difficult." It sounds like you have made a decision to not examine the cases where you have been an asshole and make serious efforts to improve. And a smart organization might decide to get rid of someone like you.