I, personally, would give them something before they even asked. Not because I am required to, but because I want them around me longer. The people who believe

I, personally, would give them something before they even asked. Not because I am required to, but because I want them around me longer. The people who believed in you when you were less capable and poorer are the ones you want around you when things are better. I am still friends with the guy who gave me my first $100 as a programmer, more than 13 years ago.