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> ...the most effective solution is very simple... No, definitely not simple. These people have intrinsic deep-seated personality defects. Sure, personality
by crispyambulance 7y ago
> ...the most effective solution is very simple...
No, definitely not simple.
These people have intrinsic deep-seated personality defects.
Sure, personality changes do occur in life but they take A LONG TIME, and barring trauma, aren't precipitated by any single event, especially something as as simple as people creating humiliation in a workplace. In other words, you can't "change" an assh*le or force them to curb their personality to the point where it's not noticeable.
You either grow a thick skin, avoid them, force them out, or what most orgs do, nothing-- just wait for their behavior/value ratio to cross a line that precipitates expulsion from the group.
- reshie 7y agoto be fair he said at least in this case(i could see it working in more cases and is very group psychology but a bit passive agressive)they left him alone not that they were not assholes anymore.