From your writing, it sounds like from your perspective there are only two outcomes: * Unacceptably nanny people * Do nothing and accept inequality in life, a

From your writing, it sounds like from your perspective there are only two outcomes: * Unacceptably nanny people * Do nothing and accept inequality in life, and make no mitigations to prevent it You have listed a lot of things that you think won't work. What do you think _will_ work, that allows people agency and doesn't require acting as their perpetual nanny?