Exactly. I have loved ones who have lived without functioning kitchens, refrigerators, cars, home climate control, etc. Some folks work ludicrous hours per wee

Exactly. I have loved ones who have lived without functioning kitchens, refrigerators, cars, home climate control, etc. Some folks work ludicrous hours per week at multiple jobs. Telling them to put in more effort in shopping, exercise, cooking, and dishes is missing the problem entirely.