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As someone who feels incredibly lonely the majority of the time, I was excited to read this article and see what they suggest for lessening the feeling. Speaki
by ziddoap 7y ago
As someone who feels incredibly lonely the majority of the time, I was excited to read this article and see what they suggest for lessening the feeling.
Speaking for myself only, these three tips are not very effective at combating loneliness.
I already participate in online communities of like-minded people (hi, HN). Although the research is still young, it seems like the predominant opinion is that participating in online forums/social media is not effective at combating loneliness and in some cases can exacerbate the issue.
Video conferencing, although effective for working efficiently with a team, I fail to see how this helps with loneliness. I'm in the office most days, and even face to face contact does not curb loneliness - because loneliness is not the same as being alone.
The third tip may have some merit. Making a concerted effort to communicate with more people (especially about non-work things) seems to have helped me a little bit. I recently read another article on loneliness that suggests trying to talk with a few strangers a day - and it seems to be helping me a bit.
- x2f10 7y agoI agree with you. I don't think these combat loneliness. I can't speak for you, but here's what's worked for me: taking various community college classes, volunteering, buying a dog (dog park, puppy classes, etc), and going a random club or two.