I'll give you an example - a female boss asked me to "come to her hotel room" during a weekend on her visit to my city, making it clear with her body language w

I'll give you an example - a female boss asked me to "come to her hotel room" during a weekend on her visit to my city, making it clear with her body language what she wanted. I declined. Half a year later my earned/promised promotion didn't happen. Another situation - a former female colleague, a married wife with children, during a business trip suggested I go to her "beautiful" rented apartment she wanted to show me and that I could sleep there; "pajamas not needed", "marriage is just marriage, it's not important". I declined; she went cold in subsequent mutual interactions, and as she was a close friend of my boss (I don't want to explore how close), boss started to be cold towards me as well. So no, there is no threat of physical violence, but there is a significant threat of unjust manipulation that for some reason is not on our society's radar at all. Shitty behavior comes in all genders, but only one is called out for it.