> ...3-400k can buy a house in extremely nice areas in flyover states, why not find a nice one, buy that and live relaxed? Although the general sentiment is ag

> ...3-400k can buy a house in extremely nice areas in flyover states, why not find a nice one, buy that and live relaxed? Although the general sentiment is agreeable, there's nothing relaxed about maintaining a $400k home. I like to think of it as a different class of stress that's decoupled from work that pays the bills.